“What if I’m just not funny?”

Recently, a former student emailed asking, “What if I’m just… not funny?”

My answer: First: maybe. Comforting start, I know. I only offer emotional support during class hours. Respect my boundaries. But “not funny” is usually too broad to be useful. A better question is: was this joke funny, to this audience on this night, told this way, by you, at this point in your development? Stand-up is an ever evolving pop-quiz administered by drunk strangers who never taught the subject.

Sometimes an audience will just hate your face. Like literally. There are nights where your energy, your look, your topic, your first joke, the room temperature, or the fact that the audience had three margaritas and a workplace layoff announcement earlier that day all combine into: “No thanks, comedy kid.” That doesn’t mean you’re not funny. It means one crowd rejected one version of you for 5 to 55 minutes. Annoying and painful? Yes. Legally binding? No.

More often, you’re probably funny, but the material choice was wrong for that crowd. A smart little joke about your therapist may crush in a class show and die at a sports bar where a skinny guy named Fat Sal is yelling at the Knicks. That doesn’t mean the joke is bad. It might mean the context was wrong, the setup was too long, the premise needed more clarity, or the audience needed a joke that hit faster before you earned the weirder stuff.

Also: you might not be funny enough yet. That’s not an insult. That’s the point of practicing and getting reps. Comedy is a skill. You get better at writing, trimming, pausing, listening, adjusting, and not looking like you’re waiting for a firing squad after every punchline. Nobody hears one bad piano lesson and says, “I guess I’m not musical.” But in comedy, people do one open mic where eight comics stare into their phones and suddenly decide God revoked their joke license.

And sometimes you are funny, but you don’t yet have the experience to handle a bad room: too drunk, too tired, too chatty, too cold, too corporate, too weirdly seated, too “we just came from a funeral but didn’t want to waste the babysitter.” Experienced comics don’t magically avoid bad crowds. They’ve just dealt with more bad crowds than you and learned how to make them better by failing. 

So don’t ask, “Am I funny?” Ask: What worked? What didn’t? What can I adjust? And how do I get more reps so one bad crowd doesn’t become my entire self-image?

Should I Quit Stand-up Comedy?

A student at one of our packed class graduation shows. (This student is not the one who emailed me.)

What Happens in a Stand-Up Comedy Class?

If you’ve never taken a stand-up class, it’s easy to imagine one of two things:

  • either it’s terrifying
  • or it’s just people trying to be funny with no structure

It’s actually neither (if the class is good).

Here’s what really happens.


You don’t walk in and perform.

You start with:

  • exercises
  • prompts
  • identifying what’s already funny about your perspective

Most people realize they already have funny life stories — they just need shaping


This is the core of the class.

You:

  • write short bits
  • try them out
  • get feedback
  • refine them

You learn:

  • how to tighten jokes
  • how to structure setups
  • how to make things hit harder

Now it becomes about:

  • delivery
  • timing
  • stage presence

You start putting together a real 5-minute set


At the end:

  • you perform in a real comedy club
  • in front of an actual audience

This is the part that changes everything


  • how supportive the room is
  • how quickly they improve
  • how fun it becomes

And also, “I can’t believe I actually did that”


  • complete beginners
  • people curious about stand-up
  • people who want to try something new
  • people who have dabbled in comedy a few times and want to get better, faster

  • 6 sessions
  • small group
  • Manhattan location
  • graduation show

You don’t need to be funny to start.

You just need to start.

Can Stand-Up Comedy Improve Public Speaking?

Short answer:
👉 Yes — dramatically.

Longer answer:
It’s one of the most effective (and uncomfortable) ways to get better at speaking.


Most public speaking training focuses on:

  • posture
  • eye contact
  • filler words

Stand-up goes deeper.

It forces you to:

  • organize your thoughts clearly
  • say something that must hold people’s attention
  • handle real-time feedback

A joke is basically:

  • setup → expectation → surprise

That’s the same structure as:

  • a story
  • a pitch
  • a presentation

You learn to get to the point faster


In most speaking situations:

  • people nod politely
  • or stay silent

In stand-up:

  • they laugh
  • or they don’t

There’s no ambiguity.


Confidence doesn’t come from:

  • affirmations
  • or “visualizing success”

It comes from doing something hard repeatedly and feeling yourself improve at it.

Stand-up forces that.


Bombing (not doing well on stage) is:

  • uncomfortable
  • but incredibly useful

Once you’ve survived that a work presentation feels easy


  • professionals who present
  • people who feel nervous speaking
  • people who want to be more engaging

You don’t need to “be funny.”

You need:

  • willingness
  • curiosity
  • and a structured environment

That’s exactly what beginner classes are for.


  • beginners are the majority
  • classes are small
  • you build toward a real performance

Public speaking teaches you how to talk. Stand-up teaches you how to be heard.

Fun Classes for Adults in NYC (That Are Actually Worth It)

Pottery. Cooking. Wine tasting. Candle making.

Some are great. Some are… you paid $85 to make a mug that looks like it lost a fight to a schnauser.

If you’re looking for something genuinely fun — not just “Instagram fun” — here are a few categories that actually deliver.


These are the most rewarding because you:

  • make something
  • improve over time
  • and actually feel different by the end

Examples:

  • stand-up comedy
  • drawing or painting
  • writing workshops

These tend to be the most memorable


Good if you want:

  • movement
  • energy
  • something active

Examples:

  • dance
  • boxing
  • yoga intensives

Fun, but usually less social interaction as everyone is copying the instructor’s moves


Examples:

  • cooking classes
  • cocktail making
  • painting nights

These are fun, but they’re more like events than experiences

You show up, do the thing, leave.


Stand-up hits a unique combo:

  • creative
  • social
  • slightly terrifying (in a good way)
  • and incredibly rewarding

You:

  • write your own material
  • perform it
  • and get real reactions

It’s one of the few classes where you walk in one person and walk out more confident


  • people new to NYC
  • people stuck in routine
  • people who want something social but not awkward
  • people who want to challenge themselves a little
  • people who want to improve their public speaking
  • people who wanna laugh

NYC Comedy Class runs:

  • small group classes
  • in Manhattan
  • ending in a graduation show

The best class isn’t the one that looks fun.

Best Comedy Classes in NYC (An Honest Breakdown)

If you Google “best comedy classes in NYC,” you’ll get a mix of improv schools, stand-up classes, and sketch programs that all claim to be “the best.”

They’re not all the same. And “best” depends on what you actually want.

So here’s a real breakdown — not marketing fluff.

There are three main categories:

1. Improv classes (UCB-style)

  • No writing
  • Group games
  • Great for creativity and looseness

2. Stand-up comedy classes

  • You write your own material
  • You perform solo
  • You build toward an actual set

3. Sketch comedy

  • You act in scenes with other actors
  • You write your own SNL style script
  • Some classes focus on both writing and acting, some are just one or the other

If your goal is:

  • performing
  • public speaking
  • and saying something in your own voice

Then you want stand-up, not improv or sketch.


Here’s what matters (and what most sites won’t say clearly):

If there are 20 people, you’re not getting real feedback.

The ideal is ~10–12 students


Some classes skip this or make it optional.

That’s like taking swimming lessons without getting in the water.

You want a graduation show in a real comedy club


A good class teaches:

  • joke structure
  • how to come up with material
  • how to edit the material down to the best parts
  • how to perform it

Not just “say something funny and we’ll clap.”


There are classes taught by:

  • career comics
  • and classes taught by people who teach comedy but don’t perform

Those are not the same.


There isn’t one answer.

But here’s a simple way to think about it:

  • Want social + playful → improv
  • Want to perform + build a set → stand-up
  • Want real progress → small class + real show

Our class is built for:

  • complete beginners
  • people who want to try stand-up
  • people who want to get better at speaking

It’s:

  • 6 weeks
  • small group
  • ends with a graduation show at a Manhattan comedy club

The “best” class is the one that:

  • actually gets you on stage
  • actually improves your material
  • and doesn’t waste your time

Everything else is branding.

How To Seem Confident

Repeating Jokes At Open Mics

We would recommend do a mix. It’s fine to do the same set (with maybe some minor tweaks) for 3-4 weeks in a row (if you don’t have anything new you’re excited to try).

But we’d avoid doing the exact same set for months on end at the same mic.

Also keep in mind the “audience” usually changes every week, at least partially.

The main thing should be to do a short joke or two at the start that you know is funny, so you can then gauge the rest of the laughs of the set based on that. 

For example, if the joke you know usually works gets an okay laugh, then that level of laugh or higher is what you want for anything new you’re trying.

If a good joke doesn’t land at all, and then no other jokes land, then you know it was just a weird vibe.

Comedy Open Mics Recommendations

First, to see a current list of open mics, check out badslava.com

Our main recs for open mics are:

How Do I Get Booked On A Comedy Show?